JAKARTA -— In this country, poverty is not just about empty stomachs, but also about powerlessness in the face of the law. Many poor people do not know where to seek protection, are unaware of their basic rights, and have no access to adequate legal assistance. As a result, they often fall victim to manipulation, persuasion, and even inhumane practices.
All of this is cloaked in the guise of legal ambiguity. One stark example of this inequality is the tragic story of Ibu Adawiyah, a young mother in North Jakarta who illegally handed over her 12-day-old baby to a foster mother.
Initially, it was due to economic hardship and ignorance of the law. Amidst the pressures of life and uncertainty about the future, Adawiyah made a difficult decision that she believed was the “best option” at the time.
However, just a few hours later, Adawiyah realized that she had made a huge mistake. Especially after learning that the family taking care of her baby had a different religious belief than hers.
Since that day, Adawiyah has not sat idly by. She has been actively seeking help from various parties, determined to bring her child back. She has gone through a long and arduous journey, knocking on doors and filing reports, despite her limited knowledge and economic circumstances.
Five months later, today, Thursday (July 3, 2025), the baby finally returned to his biological mother’s arms. After a long struggle filled with tears, regret, and burning hope, the baby named Rafka cried in the right lap.
Ricardo Hutahaean, a local community leader, confirmed that such cases are not uncommon. In his neighborhood, many poor families live without identity, access to education, or legal knowledge.
“Many of them don’t know that what was done to them was wrong. They are easily persuaded and tempted because they think that promises are the only thing they have,” he said.
The advocacy function of Dompet Dhuafa really came to life in this case. It is not only present to provide food, health, or education assistance but also stands at the forefront in defending the legal rights of the poor. Dompet Dhuafa accompanied the process of returning baby Rafka to her biological mother’s arms. The process was not straightforward. There were many pressures, objections, and emotional considerations on the ground. However, ultimately, truth and a mother’s love found their way.
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Now, Rafka’s name is officially listed on Adawiyah’s Family Card (KK), alongside the names of his father and three older siblings. He is now officially registered, legally protected, and back with the family who has the right to raise him.
Thursday, July 3, 2025, was a meaningful day. On that day, Rafka was picked up from his foster mother’s house. Adawiyah was accompanied by Dompet Dhuafa, the head of the local neighborhood association, the Indonesian Child Protection Commission (KPAI), the Ministry of Women’s Empowerment and Child Protection (PPPA), the Social Services Agency, and the police.
At first, the atmosphere was quite tense. Each party expressed their objections and concerns. However, a humane approach and wise dialogue eventually led to a peaceful resolution. The foster mother finally relinquished Rafka to his biological mother.
An emotional scene ensued. Everyone present was unable to hold back their tears. When Rafka was brought home, his grandfather and grandmother welcomed their grandson with tears of joy.
“I just wanted Rafka back. I wanted to raise my own child. I’m sorry, I’m so sorry, and I promise to take care of him as best as I can. Thank you for helping us. Thank you, God, for sending so many good people,” Adawiyah said with a hoarse voice and tear-filled eyes.
Furthermore, Dompet Dhuafa and related parties will continue to monitor Rafka and Ibu Adawiyah’s progress, including ensuring Rafka’s health condition and her primary needs during this recovery period.
Moreover, Dompet Dhuafa also invites the community to join in strengthening Ibu Adawiyah and her family so that they can stand tall again with their dignity intact. Moral, social, and economic support is urgently needed to ensure that this family can earn a decent income, so that they no longer have to resort to desperate measures.
Through this case, Dompet Dhuafa, KPAI, the Ministry of Women’s Empowerment and Child Protection, the Social Services Agency, and other relevant parties urge the entire community to refrain from illegal adoption practices.
Aan, Advocacy Officer at Dompet Dhuafa, emphasized, “Children’s rights, especially in extreme poverty, are a top priority at Dompet Dhuafa. We urge everyone in society to join hands and become part of the effort to alleviate the burdens of our fellow citizens who have been struck by misfortune. The active role of the government, together with zakat institutions, in addressing cases involving children’s rights must continue to be strengthened.”
“We understand that both a mother who gives up her child for adoption and a foster mother who wants to adopt have good intentions. That is truly noble,” said Ai Maryati Solihah, Chairperson of the Child Protection Agency (KPAI) handling cases of child exploitation.
“But the condition is that it must be done officially and legally. Because there is a process involved. The government will act as a mediator if any issues arise in the future.” she added. (Dompet Dhuafa)
Text and Photos: Riza Muthohar
Editor: Dhika